Become
Self Aware

Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.
— Aristotle
As my awareness increases, my control over my own being increases.
— William Schutz
Picturing your own personal future helps you see what steps to take - or not - to get there.
— Chris Hutchinson

Self Awareness

Youth self-awareness refers to the ability of young people to understand their own thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, as well as how these influence their interactions with others and the world around them. Developing self-awareness in youth is crucial for their overall development and well-being.

Here are some key aspects and ways to foster self-awareness in young people:

Key Aspects of Youth Self-Awareness

  1. Emotional Awareness

    Understanding and identifying one's emotions and recognizing the impact of emotions on behavior.

  2. Self-Reflection

    The ability to think about and analyze one's own thoughts, feelings, and actions.

  3. Self-Concept

    Developing a clear sense of identity, including one's strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals.

  4. Social Awareness

    Recognizing how one's behavior affects others and understanding social dynamics.

Benefits of Self-Awareness for Youth

  1. Improved Emotional Regulation

    Helps young people manage their emotions and respond to situations more effectively.

  2. Better Decision-Making

    Encourages thoughtful and informed choices that align with personal values and goals.

  3. Enhanced Relationships

    Promotes empathy, communication, and conflict resolution skills, leading to healthier relationships.

  4. Increased Resilience

    Fosters a growth mindset and the ability to bounce back from challenges.

  5. Greater Academic and Personal Success

    Encourages goal-setting, motivation, and a sense of purpose.


Strategies to Foster Self-Awareness in Youth

  1. Encourage Reflection

    Provide opportunities for young people to reflect on their experiences, thoughts, and feelings. This can be done through journaling, discussions, or creative activities like art and music.

  2. Teach Emotional Literacy

    Help youth learn to identify and express their emotions. This can involve using emotion charts, practicing mindfulness, and discussing feelings openly.

  3. Model Self-Awareness

    Adults can model self-awareness by sharing their own reflections and thought processes. Demonstrating how to handle emotions and make thoughtful decisions can provide valuable examples for young people.

  4. Provide Feedback

    Constructive feedback helps young people understand how their actions are perceived and the impact they have on others. Encourage a supportive environment where feedback is given and received respectfully.

  5. Promote Goal Setting

    Guide youth in setting personal goals and developing action plans. Reflecting on progress and adjusting goals as needed can enhance self-awareness and a sense of accomplishment.

  6. Engage in Mindfulness Practices

    Introduce mindfulness exercises, such as deep breathing, meditation, and body scans, to help young people stay present and attuned to their inner experiences.

  7. Create a Safe Space

    Foster an environment where young people feel safe to express themselves and explore their identities without judgment.

  8. Encourage Diverse Experiences

    Expose youth to various activities, cultures, and perspectives to broaden their understanding of themselves and the world around them.


Challenges in Developing Youth Self-Awareness

  1. Peer Pressure

    Young people may struggle with self-awareness due to the influence of peers and the desire to fit in.

  2. Media and Technology

    The impact of social media and technology can shape self-perception and self-esteem in both positive and negative ways.

  3. Developmental Stages

    Adolescents go through significant physical, emotional, and cognitive changes, making self-awareness development complex.


Fostering self-awareness in youth is a continuous process that requires patience, support, and intentional practice. It can lead to empowered, resilient, and empathetic individuals who are better equipped to navigate the challenges of life.